Sunday, December 07, 2008 ♥10:57 PM
raising a successful child
today i spent my whole day wif my girl,
my girl taught me two important lessons:
each child is completely different and requires different expectations,
and neither puishment nor reward teaches anything worthwhile.by
watching my girl, discovering wat helped and wat didnt, i became
fascinated with human behaviour.
children want to be successful.no child is happi being manipulated
or out of control.a successful child feel confident in herself and
emotionally secure.her behaviour is appropriate to her temperament
and stage of development.this definition of success has nothing to do
with the acquisition of things, money or accomplishment but inner balance
and well being.
parents have to step back and watch, to understand & trust the child's motives
an to learn who she is and wat she is capable of before stepping in to censor her
behaviour.
Children r cooperative and respectful when there is balance in family.....
